I find that many are looking for their Soulmate at this time. There are a lot of matrimonial and dating websites + social media that assist to bring two hearts together. But did you know that if you are not an energetic match to your Soulmate then you will not be able to recognize them even if they are right in front of you.
In the Akashic Records group clearing sessions, which I offer every alternate Monday, the most common request that I receive is 'I desire to find my Soulmate'. Here are #4 suggestions that I recently shared with my newsletter community to assist them to call in a meaningful relationship in their life.
1. Be Joyful
Following your joy is really important in the journey to finding your love. Joy connects you to yourself and who else can be the perfect person for you than yourself! Joy creates a Soul vibration right where you are.
Ask yourself - Where do you find joy? What are the activities, people, places, hobbies, situations that connect you to your joy? What stops you from finding your joy?
2. Be in your nature and stay true to your journey.
This means that you act out your role of being a woman or being a man. Many times it is women who are doing the chasing while men hold back and wait till the woman approaches them. According to me this goes against our natural tendency. No man can receive the way a woman can and no woman can pursue the way a man can. Stay true to your nature and see what happens.
Ask yourself - How is your approach to meeting your life goals? Do you receive or pursue? Are you chasing a man because you are a woman and waiting for the woman to fall into your arms because you are a man?
3. Approach from a place of 'I am loved and attended to in every way'.
We are conditioned to believe that meeting the perfect person will give us a lifetime of happiness...that finally someone will love us and pay attention to us. No one can love you more than you love yourself! When you begin a soulmate relationship from a place of fullness you can experience your partner for who they really are, not who you think them to be. This allows more love, more joy, more presence in the relationship.
Ask yourself - How can you approach a potential partner from a place of fullness? What kind of love and attention do you need to give yourself? How can you approach a potential partner from a place of "I am very much loved and if you want to love me too then you are most welcome'?
4. Explore the dynamic of the relationship.
You and me are conditioned to select a partner on the basis of similarity and comfort. Same profession, similar mindset, same likes, almost same dislikes, same perspectives, certain age, certain background, certain city etc. All of this is great but it falls in the domain of the mind. Let the domain of your Soul be your first guide, after all, you do desire to attract your SOUL MATE, don't you? The best way to do this is to explore how your partner's energy blends with yours or the dynamic of the relationship. If you have ever felt an instant connection with someone then this is your Soul speaking to you.
So lets begin with where you are. Observe your dynamic with your friends to start with. How do they react to you? Do they hold the space for your feelings? Do they ask relevant questions so that they can respond accordingly? Ideally your partner needs to be in the opposite lane with your energy. Experiment with your other relationships as well and then you can take this to your dating or match making activity.
Leave a comment below to let me know the suggestion that resonated with you the most or if you received any insights or a-ha moments.